020: Trust and Surrender, The Good Divorce & Other Lessons From My Mama

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Who is this super special human that taught me so much about life? It’s none other than my Mama! She taught me some of the best life lessons, and I truly feel like everyone can learn something from her as well. Despite having gone through a number of hardships, she has continued to always keep her cup full and looked at life through the lens of the glass being half full.

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In this episode we discuss:

  • How my Mom helped me to overcome my eating disorder

  • Retelling the story of my eating disorder from Mom’s point of view

  • What it was like for my Mom to try to instill good eating habits in her children

  • How my Mom’s actions influenced us with regard to having a positive body image

  • What “the good divorce” means

  • My Mom’s advice for people who are trying to fill their cup during a divorce

  • Unexpectedly giving birth to twins

  • Instilling a little fear in your kids

  • Mom’s parenting advice

  • Life lessons from my Mama

Key Takeaways:

  • A piece parenting advice from my mom is this: Be a great manager with your kids so you’ll become a consultant when you’re older.

  • At work, a good manager makes sure that they empower you. They let you make the decisions, and they guide you; they don’t micromanage. They respect you; they build you up; they trust you. In this way, parents should become good managers of their children.

  • As a parent, you don’t automatically know what to tell your kids.

  • 96% of what you worry about doesn’t come true.

Action Steps:

  • When you’re going through a divorce, find yourself in the process.

  • Be a good manager of your children.

  • Learn to trust and surrender.

Susan Molenda said:

“Be a great manager with your kids so you’ll become a consultant when you’re older.”

“My biggest treasure in my life is the people around me…  It’s a fun way to live life, just to enjoy each other, to learn from each other, and even to challenge each other through life. I think that’s probably one of the big life lessons is don’t forget all of that.”

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