141: When You’re Curious About BDSM + Kink Culture - Luna Matata

If you’ve been hanging around here for a while, you know I’m a big fan of pleasure--both in and out of the bedroom. If you’re struggling with keeping things hot in the bedroom, or want to experience more pleasure in your solo or coupled love sessions, or are interested in BDSM, kink culture, and threesomes (and are curious as to how they could actually be healing acts), this is the episode for you. 

Luna Matatas is an experienced sex + pleasure educator who will take us through how to start safely exploring in the bedroom, as well as how to ask for what you really want and how BDSM and kinks can actually be a healing experience.

Tune into episode #141:

In this episode, Luna and I chat about:

How Luna became a sex and pleasure educator

  • What sex-positive means 

  • How you or you + your partner can start to safely explore the land of BDSM and kink culture

  • Why talking about what you want in the bedroom can be the hottest thing you can do with your partner 

  • How to shed the shame you might have around a sexual fantasy

  • How to explore a sexual fantasy in a safe (but still sexy) way 

  • What aftercare means and why it’s so important for those exploring with sexual experiences--and how to ask for it

  • How BDSM or exploring your kinks and fantasies can be a healing tool

  • How we can start to find pleasure outside of the bedroom and make ourselves available for pleasure

  • How to find the joy in anal sex

  • Some of Luna’s favourite sex hacks 

  • Why you should take orgasm as a goal off the table when it comes to sex


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    • Website: www.lunamatatas.com 

    • Social media links: IG/Twitter @lunamatatas 

    • The Plug Podcast hosted by Luna Matatas